“We must be wil…

“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” – Joseph Campbell

Plan A, B, C,…..to Z! All about PLANS! Where to go, what to eat, who to meet, how to spend the day when you know you’re gonna be stuck the whole day in the house? We try to be careful in making plans because we want a certain goal to be achieved. I think it’s not all that. People make plans because they are careful, and afraid at the same time. They are afraid of what’s gonna happen, they are afraid that it may not turn out the way they want it to, or maybe, they are just afraid of SURPRISES! We can not expect things to happen the way we want them to be. Life is full of surprises and it’s up to us how we take them! Who knows, the things we never plan ahead, are the things we need exactly in our lives.

kisses,

Ky

“I can’t wait t…

“I can’t wait to get out of the house. I can’t wait to get out of here. I’ve been telling myself this all week. The ‘getting out of here’ part is unspecified, though. Maybe I simply want to get away from life”

GOODBYE hurts!

“I guess goodbyes are the only perfect things we get”
—Maya

We all hate endings. Everybody does! Whether it’s you who have to go…. or you who have to stay. How can one ever think of a perfect goodbye? Is there really a perfect one? For all the goodbyes I’ve said, nothing ever made me feel easy to let those words out. Some people leave because they think it’s the best thing to do. I know. Whether it’s gonna hurt others’ feelings, people do it, because they need to. Sometimes, staying will cause more pain. I’ve said goodbyes to people I loved, different reasons and different situations, but  I always got the same feeling.

I still couldn’t find any reason to call it PERFECT… Could something be perfect when it’s sad? NO WAY! There could be “see you soon” in goodbyes, but usually just “gone….for GOOD“, and the truth left? no matter what, goodbye always hurts…

Trusting a FRIEND

“Nobody likes being alone that much. I don’t go out of my way to make friends, that’s all. It just leads to disappointment. ”
― Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

Awful but yea… I’m not the kind of person who would really do the first move in making friends. I TOTALLY HATE DISAPPOINTMENT! It’s the 2nd thing I would never want to experience! Gawd! Yea, wanna know the first one? “REJECTION”… ^_^   Sometimes, I’d rather be alone than spend the day with “trying-hard-psycho-friends“… It’s not that I don’t have social life or what, I love talking to people and I go partying. It just feels like, sometimes it’s more safe talking to strangers because I know they have nothing to hold against me… (Loose lips sink ships :)) than talking to people I have known for long yet all they want to do is stab you at your back! (How I wish that Plastic Surgeons can also repair attitude for FREE, so they can prevent the vast number of PLASTICS in the planet!) XD

I know a lot of people, but I don’t know who could be REAL infront of my face, and of course… behind my back! This doesn’t worry me though, from mingling to the outside world. I’m not afraid, not really. Just because I said that I’d rather be alone, it doesn’t mean I’m afraid. It’s even a manifestation that I’m brave enough to face the BIG WORLD on my own. NOBODY can make it out here alone, i know… That’s why we have everybody! Look, it’s not wrong to trust people, but we should know whom we can share our secrets with. I may not know who among these people around me could be REAL, but I always know whom I can run to when everything starts to fall apart. I’ve been through a lot, in my 21 years of existence, I guess I already have an idea if this friend can be trusted or not 🙂 We can have million friends whom we can laugh with for hours, but we can only have few whom we can entrust our secrets with. DON’T worry if they betray you, i know it’s sad but always remember…. “WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND”… KARMA strikes the people who deserve it… badly! 🙂

(smooches)

K

All about Give-and-take

“There’s always more to a story than people think.”
– Emily (Pretty Little Liars, Season 1)

I don’t know but we, people, sometimes are too assuming. We tend to interfere to things we are not supposed to be “in”. I mean, hello, for heaven’s sake, we don’t exactly know what others are going through and then we say things that are not even confirmed. Being a know-it-all is a total disaster! We can even ruin others’ lives by not being careful, well I guess, it is never a careful idea to be one! We can always ask before we talk, listen before we spread anything. We never know everything. A smile could mean “trying to be fine”, or a laugh could mean “escapism”. We are all great pretenders, that’s one thing I’m sure of! Don’t be hypocrites! We try to hide what is obvious and show what is nonexistent! That’s why we can’t judge a situation by merely looking at it. It could mean different things. Try to look beyond what we see and open our minds to the possibilities. There’s a lot more to learn if we try to embrace “LIFE”. Take chances, and give people chances. Life is always about “give-and-take”! 🙂

(smooches)

K

Keep Going! :)

“She’s learned that, sometimes, you got to accept what life throws at you. But only after a really good fight…to find out what you’re made of. It’s the fight that makes the accepting bearable.” – Dirty Girl

Juno Temple – – –

I just watched this movie, it’s a good one huh! At first, it’s naughty, bitchy and funny, but at the end, i swear it made me cry.

This quote kinda stuck in my mind, which I believe has an impact on me! Of course! It wouldn’t be stuck in my head if it didn’t affect me at all, right? 🙂 “Learn and Accept”! Two things. There are times in our lives that we feel like we have no one to back us up, like everything is falling apart. We feel like people disagree and hate us! But we have to accept that we can never please everybody. People are people. We just have to be the real “US”, in a way that we don’t crash others’ lives. As long as we’re not causing trouble and pain to other people and we’re doing the right thing, there’s nothing to be worried about! People may or may not accept you, but it’s not your choice, it’s theirs, and whatever they choose, it’s how they want to live it! So let them keep it for themselves! They have their own lives to live, so do you. Get real and be strong! Know your goals, know where you’re heading to, expect difficulties along your way but keep going. Something beautiful awaits you there!

(smooches)

K

Every girl needs her mom..

“How can something that’s supposed to make you feel so complete end up leaving you so empty? I just wish so much I could talk to my mom. I need her. And that scares me.”

Ohhh! From B’s line. (The sisterhood of the Travelling Pants) For 21 years, (my age), I don’t think i have spoken to my mom about my heart. Well I guess, i have never done it! Since I was young, my mom let me stand on my own– school projects, homework and a lot more. I had proven my independence during my school days, gradeschool-highschool-college! Nevertheless, that never made me feel bad. I even feel so grateful for all those things, because, I can say that I’m stronger than I ever thought I could ever be! But there were times when I feel like I have no one when my heart was poached. And all I needed to talk to is my mom, but I couldn’t, because I have been used to it, like solving things on my own, taking all the hurt and pain, and standing with my own help. But I believe, that no matter how strong I could ever be, every girl will always end up needing her mom, hugging her very tight and telling her that everything’s gonna be alright!

I love you mom, and I know I can always make it because you believe in me. And that “faith” you have for me is the best thing that connects me to you. I love you forever!

(smooches)

K